10.08.2007

New Rings on fingers

I'm bemused to see not one, not two, but three of the young women in my first-year composition class sporting engagement rings this week. How in the world does one get engaged to be married in September or October of one's first year at college?

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hayumbone said...
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hayumbone said...

Perhaps these young ladies came to school already in relationships with guys who wanted to demarcate that relationship for a variety of reasons: anything aas innocuous as a token and as selfish as a claim-staker -- probably somewhere in between.

An older guy I dated briefly at the end of high school wanted to send me to Auburn with his fraternity pin -- effectively a precursor to engagement. I wasn't ready to be serious in any case, but my parents, who had been in the Greek system and knew exactly what this gesture meant, had a conniption.